Y to get Depressed ??.. Learn from it .

We dream little ..and then some more and then some more and then one day it becomes a BIG dream ,which is near about impossible to achieve ,you get depressed ..

Human being is never happy with what ever he posses ..The reason for which i fail to understand ..I understand that you shold have a set goal in your life to acheive somethings ..But  if you come across a failure ( if you are not able to reach your goal) .. You should try to find out the reason behind it than getting depressed for the same ..

Sometimes i think Will human desires ever come to an end ??

All of us say that one should learn from his mistakes ,But bringing it practically in our lives is yet to be worked upon .

It is human nature to get depressed when you were expecting something and you did not ,But you should make some efforts in finding out the reason for it too..

One should not set the goals of you aint working hard to acheieve the same and ending up getting depressed..

Eating Habits ..

Eating Habits tell us about the Nature of the Person  ..

I was reading the Brunch(Comes with Ht City on every Sunday ) this Sunday ..I came across this Article which mentioned that you can tell the Nature of the Person from his/her

eating Habits .

If a Person who goes in a Marriage and then before he wishes the Groom and the Bride ,would like to first go and check what Food is ready for them and without thinking any other

thing ,He/She would Jump on the Counter and make himself Full..It was Mentioned that the Person is Hyper Active and is Carefree ..Bindaas you may say ..  

If a Person who goes in a Marriage ,would go for a Drink first and then will go for Snacks and then will take a Maincourse and would have the Dessert .. They say this man is

Sensible ,knows his/her Responsibility ,is very Planned ..  

You might have noticed ,You go in a Restaurant with your Friend,Give a chance to Him/Her to select the Menu ,She would Order those High Caloried Food ,Such Heavy Stuff like

Butter Naan,Shahi Paneer,Kadai Paneer ,Matar Paneer and what not ,where as you just would like to go for something light like lets say a Tomato Soup with Garlic Stics .When the

food arrives ,she would just make what not all resons and would convince that she would just taste all the food that SHE order for herself and would start sharing the Soup that you

ORDER .. They mentioned these People are confused.they are not able to decide what is for them and what do they do not want in life .Unsystematic People …   

People who have very less Diet ..would count the Calories and would Munch their food .. These people are who lilttle Miser and their Intentions are to save more and more money

rather than wasting it ..   
People who are always ready for Party ..Have Parties and eat Lavishly on Weekends .. These people are Extravagant  ..  

I could actually relate few People with this Analysis and some of them came out True ,How ever i could see the Exceptions too ..  

An Unpleasant Village tour ..

In my life i had gone to my papa’s village twice .

1st time :When My grand pa was not well.

2nd time :On my grand ps’s barsi ( I dont know what is that for )

Okie so i wrote this to Tell you guys about the starnge expressions that we get when one (From the ’sheher (City) goes to gaon (Village).My dadiji Lives in Jammu. And the Village is called ‘Satwari’.There are two parts of Satwari.One is the city area and one is the village area.They used to live in Village area those days.I was very exicited to go there as i had heard about it so much ,for terrorism ,for its beauty ,for snow claded mountains.We used to live in Chandigarh and travelling from Chandigarh to Jammu was a Dream for me.We reached Jammu.Papa had strictly told me not to go anywhere leaving mamma or bhai since we did not know anyone and then I may be lost somewhere .We travelled by Train .

Ok then we are in Jammu now .It was damm cold.All of us were shivering.I started crying out of pain caused by cold .We had a ‘Hot Ginger Tea ‘.We saw our relatives waiting for us .They picked up our luggage and we then moved.So Here we are .I asked papa ,’Are we here to go vaishno devi ?’ .. He replied , ‘ No,But we will see if we can go there ‘ .I asked to Bhai. ‘Oye ,do you know why we are here ‘ .. he replied .. ‘ No ,But what do we have to do ,Chill ‘. I said Okie.

The next day.Papa told we are going to his village,where he was born and spent his 13 years of life.We were excited. As we reached the village , We were told that we will have to walk a little because the cars will not go in since there is a lot of rush in the house and the street is not so wide .So we got out and started walking ..Oh my god I actually felt so strange . All the people were staring at us as if we are aliens .Speaking in a Little different language than Punjabi.Then we reached home and Apart from our relatives ,there were some localities also sitting with them.

I usually do not understand relations because we never lived in a Joint family ever and since Papa was in airforce ,we never stayed in one place.Used to speand vacations in Nani’s home .So papa’s relatives were unknown to me atleast.

I as usual started chatting and then people (outside village ) were just staring at me .I asked if i have any broher or sister or it is just that i can see all elders , (I was tired of wishing unknown people around me ).Then some one informed ,Childrens are no present since they are sent somewhere else ( I dont remember the exact place they gave me).I thought what the hell man ,I am not going to  speak to people here .Then i sat with Bhai and started chatting with him.As we were chatting i saw few people staring at us regularly.I ignored them for a while but could not resist afterwords.I walked upto them and asked .. ‘ Am i looking strange ??’ they replied ‘No ‘. I asked then ‘ Why are you all staring at me from the last 1 hour ‘.. And they just started giggling like stupids.

The whole day we spent ,They just made Funny expressions , could not close their mouth .

I heard 1 of them saying ” These people from city do not have a dressing sense. ” .. I told what the hell ,whats wrong with my dressing sense man.

When i told one of them i work for Wipro Bpo .. One of them just screamed and said “Whaaaaaaat what did you tell , Call centre ” .. ” You mean you go for night shifts ,I wonder what you guys do in night when everybody sleeps “..  I was like , She is sick and said nothing.

And then at last the day reached when we had to go back to Chandigarh .. Thank god .I would never want to visit there again.It felt so suffocating.

An Incident ….

Usually the time i come and go are the peak hours,so there is heavy traffic  and i feel as if myhome is somewhere in Mumbai (Because from delhi-mumbai it takes 2 hour journey and same with me,i take 2 hours to reach home from office) …..

Ok so as usual,we had 2 ladies in the cab and me ofcourse.They were busy chatting to each other(Saas Bahu talks).. I thought What the hell,Y cant they shut their mouths or either start talking something interesting.I interruptted so many times,But they just said ‘Isha,U wont understand now ,wait for few years and you will also be used to these talks’ and then started chatting again..

I was just gazing outside,Trying to look through the windows of every car passing by (Thinking if there are any handsom left in delhi or no)…And then there was a sudden break,I was about to come in the driver’s seat ..
I saw a lady with her small child was just in front of the cab abusing the cab driver,her child was lil hurt,and his hand started bleeding.I told the driver to atleast check what has happened and may be the first aid in the cab could help them.The driver got out and asked the lady about the matter and then washed the child’s arm with savlon and put a bandage( since the wound was not too much)…Then the lady asked teh driver to give them the lift since they had missed their Bus.Both the ladies(Staff in the cab) started shouting compaining about the time and the rush.I explained and asked the lady (whose child was hurt),if we could drop her to a bus stand nearby as we are also getting late.She agreed and we dropped her on the nearby Bus Stand.As soon as she stepped out,she just started shouting again so lodly that she just gathered a huge crowd and started narrating the incident.All of them then started abusing the cab driver(since cabs are termed as ‘killer cabs’ as everyone beleive that cab drivers drive rough,which is not true always).The ladies in the cab were buzy chatting among themselves.And i was so hungry..   :(  ….So i got out of the cab and asked the driver to ignore everybody else’s comments and sit in the cab.He then came back and we drove back.

I found the lady’s behaviour so strange,I couldn’t beleive that people can be so harsh and selfish.

Irritating Mosquito ……

I woz once travelling from delhi - chd …It woz fri evening and since i dint plan for the travel and had an urgent work ,could not get the reservation.So it waz fri evening,I  waz getting bored ,My cellphone was not olso charged up since i forgot to charge it in office .I somehow fought and managed to get the khidki wali seat.Then the train started, I hate to talk on the phone especially when m in a public place ,coz ppl dont listen me and dey just hear the background voices and i dont like to shout like stupids (every1 gets to knoe wot m talking about)…….

So i was looking outside ..woz wathing the grond ,how speedily it waz going opposite to the train and started dreaming about somehtin (which i dont remember now) .. Around me were stupid people (NO smart dude  )….
N dekhte hi dekhte raat ho gai …. Ol d lites in the train were switched off …N dere was silence ol over ….I could hear nothing except the sounds that train is moving so fast..n den ol f a sudden i heard a very very soft whispering sound ,Den i started to pay attention to wot it was and i got 2 knoe that this is a mosquito.

I had learnd i guess in 5th ,LIFE CYCLE ,My mam had taught me that Every living being on earth has a reason and they are a part of one or the other life cycle … I used to wonder how a irritating mosquito is needed to be a part of the life cycle …. He waz just irritating me.I HATE MOSQUITOES.

Den since i dremt of being a doctor ,I thot I haf disected few reptiles (like frogs ,earthworms ,mouse,cockroach)….but no1 made us to disect dis mosquito…..
Den the whispering stopped and i saw that he is sitting on the very tip of my index finger ….i dint flew him away …i let it suck my bloog and i could see that the bag which is there on the extreme right hand side ,that began to grow bigger and i cold see that its dark in colour ….and in front of my eyes ,he was a very thin pale moquito and he became a dark jet black filled with blood ,a healthy mosquito.and i have noticed many a times before that when mosquitoes gain blood and they become healthy,it becomes difficult for them to fly….and it happened the same with that mosquito too….I just caught him by his neck so that his blood bladder should not blast …den i held his 2 antenaas …. I took out the hair clip from mah hairs ,turned my cell on …and thought let this seat become a ICU … so i with the help of the hairpin first lied him doen and then broke his 2 antenaas ….cautiosly i tore apart his head first which i nearly made kachumbar olready…. My hands were eager to tear away his BLOOD BLADDER .. i very carefull tore his blood bladder ,,,n chapppaaaaaakk,ofcourse dis woz nt the noise that came out , but the whole blood jus messed up the table……and there was the mosquito lying fully opened in front of me … Yippppppppppy my culprit was dead …. i dint throw it out and was staring at it and i saw that his other friends  visited him and some gathered for 2-3 mosquitoes gathred (May be they were dicussing ‘accha banda tha yaar ,aisa kya ho gaya isko ‘ ….:D       :D) and then they olso flew away ….
But at the last he dried up and i slept while staring at him…when i woke up in the morning i could see that mosquito ol dried up and i got up from that seat and shifted to the next boggie coz i woz abot to reach mah place ….. :D       
I now understood why mosquitoes are made…so that if v r angry,v r frustrated and theres nobady v cn shout on,,,catch a mosquito and disect it …KYA SHANTI MILTI HAI …Relllllllaaaaaxxxxxxx…….If v were jailed to kill a mosquito,,,Bhagwaan to mujhko kabhi bahar nikalte nai … M saved    ..  :D      …..Wheneva my gl scolds me i narrate him dis incident and he shuts his mouth … :D     

…..HAVE NE OF YOU DISECTED A IRRITATING MOSQUITO OR ANY OTHER INSECT ??

Which kind of smile do U like ??

I am jus a happy go lucky girl.I jus think that the real funda to pass away your life is to just smile ..smile n smile …It has

the ultimate power u c ,I neva used to complete my home work or projects on the given date ,never used to reach school

on tyme…never used to obey my parents…and used to get lotta scoldings from evry1 i knew ….n all i Used to do do waz

smile weneva each 1 of used to scold me (or sometimes laugh so hard ) and they used to get irate ..Hahahahahahahah ..I 

jus love to irritate a irate person…God they just look so cute …:D .. Um…i can olso smile in different styles …. 

I heard Boys saying that a smile for them means yes to their answer .. ;-)..I guess that isnt true .Heheheheheh ..

A smile can be categorized into 2 categoriez ..
1.Genuine smile .

2.Sarcastic smile .

I love sarcastic smiles ….

okie then smile can also be used to please a person ..i’ve never done so But yes have noticed few instances around me..

WHICH KINDA SMILE DO U LIKE ??